AIO For Not wanting to be around my boyfriends family
My boyfriend was abused by his older sister when he was 10-11 and she was 15-16. He’s 26 now. He told his mom recently I guess hoping she would understand why he wants nothing to do with her but his mom is carrying on business as usual. His sister lives at his mom’s house still in her 30s mooching off her. So his mom continues to bring her up. (Sister doesn’t know anyone knows she probably thought he was gonna keep her secret forever). I hate that I am a little upset at his mom that she hasn’t changed anything. I don’t care about her confronting anyone which probably wouldn’t be good for him so I’m happy about it. BUT she will keep bringing up his sister to us like we want to hear about her. She continues to say that she isn’t getting anything in her will (like that’s not why he even told his mom) but then goes out to dinner or something with her then complains how she’s ungrateful and never doing it again. How can you know this information, still be around this person, and then talk shit about them to the other child who just told you something traumatic to make them feel better about you hanging around the other person. It’s just not a normal situation to me and it’s making me feel like i’m crazy for thinking it.