This will be deleted eventually, I’ve pretty much done long distance my whole life atp. I’ve had irl relationships and they just never work out, one was a dare (classic fat girl experience), one ended up turning long distance which he wasn’t down for, and the only other one I count I fucked up and broke up w him prematurely.
I (21F) finally found a guy(26M) that is genuinely my dream guy, absolutely perfect, everything about us matches up perfectly and we are aesthetically polar opposites which I find really cute. I’m American but I’ve moved to the UK, and he’s still in the states. His state isn’t safe for me as a mixed race person so the plan is that he comes here. However he has fallen on some really hard times which has delayed being able to meet for the first time. We have been dating 2 years and hopefully, if everything goes to plan, will be meeting early next year. He finally got a job and is due to start soon so things are looking up and I’m seeing his light come back. He doesn’t have a passport yet, but I just want an outside perspective on this.