Okay this is gonna sound stupid as fuck, but please belive. This happened on April 2nd. I've been with my boyfriend for a few months. We're on a break right now, but something happened back in April that I still can't get out of my head.
One day, we were supposed to meet up. He was at a bike shop. While I was waiting, his account suddenly sent me a photo, a mirror shot of his ex. I still remeber the photo all to well. It was a mirror shot, and her nipple bakat pa sa shirt nya AUGHHHH💔💔 and it was a screenshot taken on his phone. I knew that because kabisado ko layout ng phone nya. He told me na ung Pic nayon matagal na back in early 2024 daw. Gago ung Pic it was sent not once, not twice, BUT MULTIPLE FUCKING TIMES 💔 and as far as I remember Nag send pa ng emoticon I don't remeber king ano yon 💔 Fucks sake💔.
I was on call with a friend when it happened. I started hyperventilating. fuck I never want to experience that ever again. My hands were shaking, my vision was s getting blurry, and parang naninikip chest ko. I called him, messaged him, freaked out. He told me it wasn't him. He said he wasn't even on his phone💔 he was talking to the bike shop owner.
When I asked who else had his account info, he told me ung ex Lang nya💔. She had his login info. And he hadn't changed his password in three years. Three years. Tangina nag sesend ako ng nudes tas may bold pa kami malaman laman ko someone else CAN LOG IN TO HIS ACCOUNT EASILY 💔.
I asked him to talk to her. To find out who sent it. He said "ayoko nga kausapin yon eh" 💔 I don't want to talk to her. Then he said "pero sige" 💔 fine, I'll do it. Like it was a favor to ME.
I still don't know who sent it. I don't know if it was her, or someone else. 💔 Gago when we were talking instead of him comforting me, he defended her💔 I still remeber it. "hindi sya ganon" "kilala ko sya"
I don't know if they saw our conversations, our photos, our private moments.
I don't feel safe. I don't feel protected. And I don't know if I ever will. 💔 Taena kada nakikita ako ng mga scandal dito I get anxious Baka kasi ganon mangyari sakin.
Our relationship hasn't been the same after that. I don't know what to do anymore. I can't t leave him.
I really wanna share this. I want to hear what others think.
Note: we've only been together for 4 months 💔. Him and his ex lasted 3 years. Augbbhhhhh I remember him telling me that they were only 2 years then later on he said that it was actually 3 years💔 don't know why he would lie about that.