Brothers, do you think about the one who got away?
Assalamu alaikum,
A brother and I didn't work out because of cultural differences and financial too. I was told through a TP why it couldn't work not by him. I can't help but wonder that despite the circumstances and obstacles, if he does think about me? Whether he does wish it was different? I'm not trying to beg, that's the last thing I would do, however it would be nice to know I didn't imagine it all and it wasn't one-sided. We only met twice with TPs present and spoke about our goals, expectations for family, etc, before deciding we wanted to then get our parents involved. Is this enough for a guy to feel something?
I think part of the reason why I fear it was one-sided is because I actually showed interest in him first and I initiated everything. Would you remember a girl who showed interest first? We're also both quite young so I doubt he has had anyone else consider him for marriage seriously. He definitely said things that made me believe it was mutual, especially considering he also said he wanted to tell his dad about me only after a few days of initially meeting me. But again, is that a red flag? I dont know.
Like does he even wonder what I think of everything or what my parents said?
People keep saying that if he wanted to he would have fought or this or that which I understand but I want to hear some brothers' perspectives.
Jazak'Allah khair.