u/Additional_Tough_977

Basically I met this girl 8 months back and everything was going extremely well but 3 months back she found out I had a girl best friend (before I met her, I blocked her and cut all contact already) and our relationship has been getting ruined day by day. She overthinks about that girl a lot because I was very close to her and I also did sexting with her like 2 or 3 times. I want to help my girlfriend solve her overthinking. What do I tell her? And I know shes not mature enough for a relationship since she cant let go of the pass. All her friends are the same saying its unacceptable I did it. Idk what to do, it was before I knew her. But I love her so much so I want to fix this and build our relationship back. Please help

Me 18M and my gf 18F have a huge issue in our relationship which is she cant let go of the past and she overthinks about it a lot. I want to help her so badly, but I am the cause of it. She found out that I talked to a girl before I ever met her and I was very close to her (I didnt like her and she was lesbian for like 75% of the time then changed to bi)

And I also did sexting with her 2-3 times just for fun since I didnt think much of it and it was fun for like the first few minutes. She tells me she cant forget all these things I did and it doesnt matter if I did it before I met her. Our relationship has been tearing apart ever since she found all these out. I need help please, I love her so much and I really just want to help her.