u/Additional_Stand_373 — reddlx

So I started about 8 weeks ago a new job. One of the first things that took my eye was a Girl at the desk. She seemed attractive to me. I started to talk with her about work, she helped me with few things. She trained me about some procedures.

When she was showing me a program she was checking her phone and she told something about a game. She asked me if a am gamer. I was asking her in the next days about her weekend, how it went etc. She asked me about how to count calories and told me that she goes to the gym. She told me that she's doing her bachelors on the weekends. I think the age gap is like 3 years.

She smiles when we pass the corridor. But now after my training is done I don't see her that much.

Like twice or thrice a day briefly. I'd like to get to know her better. I know the saying you don't eat where you shit. But what's the worst that can happen? I don't see myself being in this company for long anyway.

So I'd like to whenever possible, expand our relations. When I see her doing some tasks I don't want to disturb her. When she is not busy I try to chat with her about something, mainly work related. But sometimes I chicken out and don't want to be seen as a simp.

I don't think she has a boyfriend because I would notice it. She never told about one.

So is it a good idea to try and form some kind of relations with her and then ask her out? We've got same hobbys, things to talk about.

One thing is that I drive an old car and she may see me as a brokie. But I own a home that she doesn't know about. I think it would be bad to say her that I have a home. I wouldn't want her to be interested in me because of that.

I think she likes me based on her behaviour but I am not sure if she's into me