TL;DR: is it normal i never feel a “climax” when having an orgasm, just straight pleasure the whole time?
i am a female and i don’t think i’ve ever had an actual orgasm before. usually, girls i’ll talk to describe reaching a high point when they finish: they can feel it coming, hit that point, and they are done. i however have never reached a “climax”. i never feel it coming, i don’t get a rush of euphoria when i orgasm, and it’s never like a noticeable change in how intercourse feels. i’ve only ever felt a “climax” during masturbation, never during actual intercourse. i know i have an orgasm because i can see it, but i don’t feel it building up or hitting a high point. is this normal? it’s ruined past relationships i’ve had because im never sure if i actually “finish” and obviously a man asking you if you did is a very awkward situation, even if you’re not sure your lying. please help me figure out how to fix this or at least tell me im not alone!!