u/AdditionalPark4144

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Hi everyone! I just finished my bachelor’s, and honestly, I’m not as excited as I thought I’d be. I didn’t have the typical "college experience.” I’m walking away without any long-term friendships, and I don't have a job lined up yet.

I’ve moved back in with my parents and am basically acting as a nanny right now. While I know I’m lucky to have that safety net, I’m struggling with the "what's next" of it all. I live in a pretty remote area and actually just fell for my first job scam, which was a huge bummer.

Could use some hopecore today. How long did it take you to find a job post-grad? How many should I realistically apply to per day? Trying not to let the fear take over, but any words of wisdom would be appreciated. :(

Pictured is the beautiful matcha I made today with my new matcha kit! <3

u/AdditionalPark4144 — 12 days ago

Hey everyone! 🫂 I’m graduating next month and heading into a career in tech, so I’m really hoping to find my "people" before life gets super busy. I’m in the Lansing Michigan area and I’m looking for woman or non-binary friends! I am not looking for friends who are men.

I’m looking for friends who are left-leaning/leftist and not conservative. If you’re also in tech that’s a huge plus, but definitely not required! 💻

I’ve always dreamed of having a solid friend group, but I’m honestly pretty shy and have had a hard time connecting with people in the past. I’d love to find 1 or 2 friends to get really close with. ✨ I am a Scorpio and an INFP, so I tend to take a while to open up!

I’m a total homebody and a sober person (I don't smoke or drink and never have), so I’m not into the bar or club scene at all. When I’m not cuddling with my cat, I’m usually into makeup, fashion, cooking, or just rotting in bed while doomscrolling/watching shows lol.

If you’re looking for something low-key, genuine, and pressure-free, please reach out! I’d love to meet you. 💐🪩🪷🐈☕️🫐🌈🧚🏼‍♀️

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u/AdditionalPark4144 — 16 days ago
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Hey everyone! 🫂 I’m graduating next month and heading into a career in tech, so I’m really hoping to find my "people" before life gets super busy. I’m in the Lansing Michigan area and I’m looking for woman or non-binary friends! I am also open to online friends! I am not looking for friends who are men.

I’m looking for friends who are left-leaning/leftist and not conservative. If you’re also in tech that’s a huge plus, but definitely not required! 💻

I’ve always dreamed of having a solid friend group, but I’m honestly pretty shy and have had a hard time connecting with people in the past. I’d love to find 1 or 2 friends to get really close with. ✨ I am a Scorpio and an INFP, so I tend to take a while to open up! I'd definitely love to text for a bit before meeting up in person just to get comfortable.

I’m a total homebody and a sober person (I don't smoke or drink and never have), so I’m not into the bar or club scene at all. When I’m not cuddling with my cat, I’m usually into makeup, fashion, cooking, or just rotting in bed while doomscrolling/watching shows lol.

I’d love to find someone to:

Grab a matcha or coffee 🍵

Go thrifting or hit up the mall 🛍️

Go kayaking or find a good hiking trail 🛶

Grab dinner and just yap 💘

If you’re looking for something low-key, genuine, and pressure-free, please reach out! I’d love to meet you. 💐🪩🪷🐈☕️🫐🌈🧚🏼‍♀️

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u/AdditionalPark4144 — 16 days ago