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I M(21) cannot finish when my gf gives me a BJ. This has been a recurring issue and the only time I “finished was when I helped her” I’ve tried motile different things tho like not masterbating for days on end til I see her or changing the frequency to which I do it to mimic that way she gives head. I’ve tried guiding her to do it a certain way. I’ve rlly focused on finishing and other times just the feeling. Overall nothing is working. It’s kinda becoming an issue because she enjoys giving head but obviously when there’s nothing to show for her effort it becomes less desirable. Is there anything I can do to fix this issue because I really want to finish from a bj.