Gyno and depression
This post is for everyone out there who is doubting whether to get this surgery performed or not.
I lived a pretty healthy life throughout my childhood. Had a great friend circle in school, became headboy, was good in sports and studies both. Hit puberty, got this nasty condition: grade 3 gynaecomastia. In school days I still somehow managed by not paying much attention to it and struggling it of as something temporary. However when it didn't improve even when I hit 18, I became stressed. I tried to explain to my parents, but they wouldn't budge(although I don't blame them, they were worried about what might happen if the surgery went wrong etc). I went into college, always wanted to make friends, but after sometime felt that I was being judged so self isolated. Faced similar opening up issues even talking to females. The once confident boy now always dropped his shoulders to avoid any stares. Completely withdrew myself from any social events because they were all potential places where I could be made fun of. I used to fucking swim, run, play tennis, all these activities now became a burden.
Recently however, at the age of 25, I have got my surgery done and honestly although it feels like a relief to wear normal clothes, go outside with somewhat more of a confidence, there still seems to be a huge void in my life. I feel as if I have missed living from the ages of 18-25 and it sucks. I would recommend any teenager experiencing this to get it corrected asap. Bro, you don't want to lose the best years of ur life to this shitty condition. As a man, you should experience ur best physique, play ur favourite sports and have a shot at the girls u like with full confidence. That's all from myself side
Best.