u/AdShoddy7773

this is kinda long but i need some help, my girlfriend broke up with me 2 months ago, she said she needed space and tried to make it seem like everything was my fault in the relationship, so of course i felt like it was, we also lived together for 2 years and raised a puppy together, when she broke up with me we were still living together and she ended up saying one of us needed to go so we could both heal properly and she had no where to go and i did so i chose to leave, well i would go back to get some of my things and everytime i seen her we would have a talk, it was a good talk and it felt like it was going somewhere, we would both cry and everytime i left we’d hug and she’d tell me she loves me and cares about me and she hopes i know that, she even let me give her a forehead kiss which was her favorite, she also told me that we could come up with a plan for me to take the dog to a park and hangout with him, so i gave it a week of NC and i texted her and asked if i could take him to a park cause i really needed it, she never responded, and then a few more weeks go by of her not texting and me not texting her and i was being told by my parents and friends that i need to tell our landlord what’s going on with us so i don’t get in trouble with our apartment if she fails to pay, but before that i wanted to make sure if it was okay with her so i texted her again asking if we could talk about our apartment situation, she ignored me again, so i went ahead and talked to my landlord, he told me to give her a form that would take me off the lease and give it to her fully, so i sent it to her and she texted me mad at me for talking to our landlord without talking to her first about it, but she said she’ll read over it and get back with me on it, well she still hasn’t signed it, and she hasn’t reached back out to me on it, then i started hearing things from her friends boyfriends cause we’re all in the same friend group of her telling lies saying i left and she don’t know what to do and all this so not gonna lie i got pissed and texted her, she didn’t reply, i called her and she started to text me and i said no your gonna call me and tell me to my face what you’ve been lying about, so she called me and said she never said that and started to cry telling me i don’t need to listen to them, so it tugged at my heart and i told her that it was okay and said the only thing that matters is we know what happened between us and don’t need to worry about what other people said, and we got off the phone cause my phone died and so i texted her thanking her for talking with me and asked again if i could see my dog cause she was saying he was depressed and sick and knew what was going on with us, she never replied, so i left her alone, a few weeks go by and her mom texts me asking me to relay the message of them moving to her, (she didn’t even tell her parents we broke up), so i sent her the text and said i don’t know what to say, she didn’t respond AGAIN, so i called her and she sent me straight to voicemail so i texted her and said i don’t know what to say so im gonna tell her our situation, she finally texts back and says “it’s not your place to tell her, thank you for relaying the message though” so i just said your right im sorry and your welcome, and never told her mom and went about my way, that was the last conversation i had with her, she was being so rude and nasty everytime she did text me, so i gave up trying, well a week goes by this is about a month and a half after being broken up and im told by her friends boyfriends again that she told everyone she’s seeing someone already from her work and that they could tell me but not to tell me hes from her work cause she don’t want me thinking she was cheating on me. They also told me that this new guy has been bringing her beer and things to smoke and she hated that stuff, she thought it was icky and now she’s doing it, i haven’t texted her about this new guy, i’ve been simply leaving her along and continuing to work on myself, i just need advice on what it sounds like she’s doing or what she’s been up to, i feel like she was emotionally involved with this guy before breaking up and she wanted to see if the grass was greener, it just hurts because i sacrificed a lot for this girl, got her out of a toxic place and situation when i had a good home with my family, and for her to just leave. I need help and advice. (sorry the story was long)