Every Women i have met lately, wanna do celibacy.
This might sound weird, but i am genuinely seeking advice.
I am 25 years old, i have an okay job nothing crazy, But somehow most Women that i had a mutual interest with saw in me a husband. I don't know if it's because they can see the vison, where im headed and everything, they know they will be okay with me.
But that's not everything, i will not say that i am he best Man ever, but i have been properly raised by my Mom so i treat women with respect, i listen, support, not boring at all and everything. Everything they can look for in a good guy with the bonus of the "fun" they could have find in a bad one. So they don't get bored, and they feel safe.
All this to say, they like it there. But i don't think i am ready to get married yet. Mabe because i feel like i can't provide the life that someone i call my wife would deserve yet. I want to be so comfortable that my wife goes to work just for fun, not because i can't provide anything that she want.
And get married now might make me more careful about risk that i want to take with my life.
Theses women sometime are Christian, they bring the idea of us being Husband and wife. The idea of practicing celibacy if we get into a relationship to wait till marriage(that i am nowhere to be ready for ) On top of that i have a high sex drive and will be frustrated doing celibacy.
Should i go to therapy, and maybe that will give me a different perspective or should just change the type of women I usually pursue ?