Last night my (25f) boyfriend (24M) randomly got mad at me because he went through my phone and saw messages between my friend and I talking about going to shake shack but we kept asking each other if we wanted to “shake the shack” every time we wanted to go and he thought it was a fake contact name and I was actually fucking this person and cheating on him.
I was able to show him proof that this wasn’t the case, honestly looking at the messages it did seem sus lol. Anyway, I asked him what prompted him to look through my phone in secrecy and he said he didn’t know he just felt like it. So I went to work today and talked to my friend and she said he might have a guilty conscious if i haven’t given him a reason to not trust me, which I don’t think I have.
I asked him about looking through his phone because I said it was strange behavior that he did that and he said I’m being presumptuous and that he only looked through my phone cause he had a gut feeling and that I have no reason to look through his phone, I got annoyed and walked away