u/AdPrestigious9784

My child is starting solids soon and do to a disability will have to eat a specific and healthy diet. I am scared out of my mind. I have had eating disorders of every kind at some point in my life. I’m very overweight and have been eating horribly since giving birth. My husband eats terribly as well. I make sure my toddler eats well and gets his recommended portions of each food group. He’s a very healthy weight and height. However, he still eats like a normal kid and eats red meat, cheese, salt and other foods my second won’t be able to. That being said if my second child gains too much weight or eats too much of certain foods it can cause organ failure. We are already worried about a specific organ failing and closely monitoring it. After speaking to her doctors they recommended the entire family switch to her diet set by a specialist nutritionist. Has anyone experienced something like this? I don’t know what to do and feel like I’m drowning. It’s also going to be important she exercises so I found a gym near me. My son gets atleast an hour of exercise everyday but I want to show not just tell. I have so much going on and really just need some advice, tips, and encouragement. TIA