u/AdLopsided1429

Hey, so I’m in a dedicated relationship with someone who has a nesting anchor partner. We’re both deeply in love but after a long time together I’m finding myself wanting the same. Obviously that’s not available from her so I’ve been trying to date. I’ve tried feeld, it seems like the majority of poly people on there are partnered and looking for “secondary” partners (or what ever term, personally hate it) and I’ve met some people more “conventionally” who run as soon as the p word is mentioned. I’m wondering if I’m just cooked? Any advice? For what it’s worth, I’m 35 M cis and straight.