mf broke up with me after setting me at ease
Just wanted to share
During this short but very intense 3 months relationship I recognised pretty fast that he’s avoidant.
But like most of us, I told myself I was the anxious one and needed to calm down and pretty much gaslighted myself the entire time.
The thing is I’m a pretty straightforward person- so I told him the thing I’m the most afraid of is him just waking up one day and wanting to break up.
I pretty much explained that by the fact that he never told me what was wrong and when i did discover that things weren’t as he told me they were it was on explosive fights.
Of course he reassured me and told me he believed in us bla bla bla
Then, on the most intense week I had at work and personal life and was sick af with fever he came…
That’s the only time he asked me how I am, I was surprised.
Just for him to announce that he wants to break up a few phrases after.
My worst fear has come to life.
After I told him.
Just shitty persons really, I loved him to bits..