My husband (25 M) wants to play video games instead of making love to me (25 F)
Am I being crazy here? tl;dr I feel like I’m competing with a video game for his attention. For some context we do live far away from his close friends so he doesn’t get to hang out with them as much. So I do understand him wanting to play video games with them. But he plays games for hours and hours every single day, I feel like I’m always waiting for him to log off and hangout with me or have sex. And when he does log off he says he’s too tired or just too full from dinner to do anything. Tonight I put on some really sexy underwear, laid down in bed and called for him. It took him about 20 min to get to the room and when he did he rejected me. He told me I could wait an hour or two for him to finish. I felt so embarrassed and I got upset and changed into my pajamas. Now I don’t even want to hang out with him or for him to touch me. I don’t know what to do or how to feel, I’ve tried talking to him about this but he just tells me it’s nothing and that he still loves me just as much and wants me sexually, but I don’t feel it.