AITA for sharing a story my friend told me?
I 19F have a friend 20F who has a situation ship thing with this guy. 20m. They’re just FWB but talked about being open to more, I text her when he’s at her house and she starts explaining the situation she’s currently in. Have to tell the full story for context.
She smokes weed very occasionally and thinks it’ll be fun to smoke with the guy and he’s never smoked before. He has a panic attack and she’s telling me how bad she feels about it because she kinda encouraged him to try when he was on the fence about it. But also maybe she didn’t mess everything up because when he started to come down he curled up against her and asked her to hold him and said he appreciates not feeling too embarrassed that he got like that in front of her.
As we keep talking she mentions jokingly worst of it is he’s half napping now and said to wake him In 10 , she was expecting them to have sex at some stage today before this happened and still is thinking they will. but she says she doesn’t have the emotional intelligence to figure out when it’s appropriate to initiate when he was shaking uncontrollably and sobbing like no time ago, worried it comes across a bit inconsiderate to come onto someone clearly
Exhausted and emotionally raw like maybe that’s something you obviously don’t do. Says she’s hoping he does when he wakes up but is worried if he’s feeling awkward about how he was he might not. Praying he wakes up with a let’s pretend that didn’t happen attitude.
And that’s the story on her over. Me and her and a larger group are hanging out like days later, she’s talking about doing psychology for her masters and I joke about suppose you’ve already got experience as a therapist just gotta work on not fucking your patients that’s I’m pretty sure is a crime? Everyone’s like what are you talking about so I explain everything she was texting me at the time with some jokes thrown in. Then she absolutely goes OFF at me about how why I shouldn’t have shared that and how private it was.
I ask then why she told me about it so casually and she said because she was feeling bad and I happened to be messaging her. I say it’s not my fault she over shared and never mentioned it was private. Because she never said it was but she says it’s obvious.