My ex reached out to me this week for the first time in almost a year. Do I tell his girl friend?
To give context, my ex (27M) and I (28F) were together for a few months in the spring of 2024. He’s someone I’d known from high school, but drifted apart after it was over. When we reconnected, he had just ended things with his fiancée around 3 months prior. I didn’t know too much about the circumstances as to why they separated, but I felt like I could trust him when he told me it was mutual and for the best. We weren’t together long, four months total, but we spent so much time together and I really felt like we were “end game”. We met each other’s families, talked about our future together, and even started making a plan to move to another state together… until he ended things out of the blue one day. He told me he’d, “never be able to give me what I wanted” and didn’t give me much more to go off than that. I was devastated. For weeks after I questioned what was wrong with me and why he didn’t want me. That was, until he posted a photo with a new girl less than two weeks later. I was outraged, hurt, and confused. My friend and I were able to gather enough info to realize he had been cheating on me nearly the entire time. After that, I reached out to his former fiancée to ask about what prompted the end of their relationship… he had cheated on her too. Ever since then, every 6 months, at around 1-2am, he will call me over and over again until I answer. I never answer, but this week when it happened, I did. He was obviously intoxicated, but ecstatic that I answered. He went on to tell me he’d been thinking of me every single day for the last two years. He missed me, and regretted everything. I wasn’t surprised, just annoyed that it was 2 am and I had to hear him drunkenly try to explain how big of a mistake he’d had made. While this was mostly a phone call, I do have texts that he sent before, during, and after talking on the phone that are echoing the same sentiments.
My question, do I send screenshots to girlfriend, the one he cheated on me with? I don’t want him back, but I don’t feel right knowing he’s doing the same thing to her that he did to me, his former fiancée, and more likely than not, the girls who came before.