Can you tell if a guy fakes c*umming inside?
So basically, I was dating an amazing guy for a couple of months. VERY smart, attractive, interesting, very sweet under the tough exterior. His exes were all escorts and only fans people so I felt a lot of pressure to give a great performance during sex. I'm about 6 inches taller than him and that size difference translates....to everything.
I'm on the larger end of the spectrum and so sex was a bit of a minefield for me because he wanted to be roughed up a little but also seemed to be in pain sometimes and would ask me to stop.
I tend to have a hard time climaxing from anal so I usually can go for a very long time and my focus is usually on giving the bottom an awesome experience. that usually goes over pretty well. Not with this guy. He seemed to be really hurt and offended that I was having a hard time cumming inside him and almost used it as some kind of metaphor for our compatibility.
He said sex was a spiritual thing for him and he needed me to be able to do that. I was crushed when he broke up with me, citing that as one of the reason. He was actually probably my favorite sexual partner. I was excited to do and try things with him that felt like a concession or a chore with other guys.
I'm wondering though, if I had just faked it and like flexed my dick while I was inside of him, would he have noticed? Would that have saved our relationship? I get a fair amount of attention from guys but I don't find hookups to be all that enjoyable so losing a partner tends to be really hard on me because I also lose my primary sexual outlet for a while.
I was in an accident and I have a bit of nerve damage with doesn't effect my ability to stay hard or feel anything but it does make cumming a bit harder. So I really want to know if bottoms can tell if you fake it or not. What sensations indicate the it's happening? how would you detect fraud?