u/Actuallyadumb4ss

Sorry I don’t usually post like this, but I was on the phone with my friend, and it just brushed me the wrong way. We were fake arguing like we normally do, and said “ok well I’m better than you” (which is something we both say 24/7) and he replied “oh I can’t say what I was gonna say you’ll get mad”. I sorta knew what he was gonna say but I was still kind of hoping I was wrong. I kept asking, and eventually he told me that my “argument” that I was better than him was invalid because I’m trans. I’m ftm, only him and one other friend even know. I don’t wanna sound like I’m overreacting for saying “hey that wasn’t cool even if you were just kidding” but I don’t like the fact that even as a joke I’m somehow inferior to him just because he’s cis and I’m not. Maybe I’m being dramatic but I just don’t know how to go about this. I know he probably didn’t mean it in a hurtful way but like yeah idk sorry if this is worded badly