u/Actual_Solution_5128

I (20f) and my boyfriend (24m) have been together for 2 years going on 3 years. I never been to a club before and I really want to experience it he say it’s not his scene, i really want to go he told me that he don’t see his partner going to a club, it’s friend birthday and she wants to go to a club she’s the only friend I have and I’m her only friend she going with her boyfriend to a club, I asked my partner if I can go he told me “ we had this conversation multiple times and it seems like I don’t care for his opinion or feelings, he said he don’t see his partner going to club and in that environment, he keeps on telling me this repeatedly, he’s telling me I’m not going to like it and whatever he fuck else. Now for a background check we have a son he’s 9 months old I don’t work, I’m home 24/7, I have no friends except for the one I got. I don’t do anything I’m home with my son 24/7. There is no me time or time for me to go do anything by myself. It’s not like I want to go by myself I want him to go with me but he don’t like the scene or the environment. I feel like he threatens our relationship. By telling me I don’t want my partner to go a club you can go but I don’t know what’s going to happen with us or he say stuff on the line of that. I just need some advice really can I get some help please?