u/Actual_Membership_23

Oo na. Important ang competence and intelligence sa law practice, pero sana invest din tayo sa ugali at ethics. Nyeta netong mga Partners na kung maka utos akala mo naman taas ng sweldo na binibigay. Para bang ginawa lang tayong utusan. Gets ko naman this is part of work. But a small gesture of “thank you” is more than enough. Bigyan natin ng konting dignity ang isa’t isa. Pero un nga, “talino” lang ang puhunan pero ugali bankrupt. 🤷🖕

Di nga ako ginaganito ng mga pamilya ko na mas marami pang ambag sa buhay ko.

Really need advice. Nakakasakal talaga ang pag aabogado for many reasons. for one, daming toxic lawyers and toxic clients. second, ang baba ng pay and overworked pag associate. third, napaka demanding and sensitive ng work. it demands so much time pati weekends kinakain nya. holiday ngayon pero panay email ang mga coworkers tas dami deliverables. pwede na sana eh pero ang baba pa ng pay.

but above all, di ko talaga passion to and nakakasakal. im nearing 30 and feels like im slaving away my life just to pay bills and exist. also la rin ako motivation to actually do above and beyond if wala talaga akong drive. and i obv cant tell my bosses that because that’s suic*de.

but here lies the problem: i can’t leave because have bills to pay and have nowhere else to go.

although i would say im interested in videos/photography. i can also maybe do semi-legal work remotely. i hate law firms.

sorry for the gibber rant. la ako sa mood mag sulat ng maayos. just want to let out. wala akong mapagsabihan because people around me thinks i have everything under “control”. I don’t. I am confused and i have no clear direction.

But a lingering question is ringing my ear: do i risk now or regret later?