u/Actual_Bug_6567

Am I overreacting or is my roommates boyfriend here too much? Basically my roommates boyfriend lives a couple of hours away and used to come for the occasional weekend which was fine (even though she never told me, I always found out when I would walk in the door from work lol). Anyways, the past couple of months he has increased his number of visits and lengths of stays. For example last month alone he was here for nearly 20 days. He works from home so is there when my roommate and I are not, he meal preps which takes up most of the space in our fridge and regularly uses are small apartment gym. I tried having a conversation with her a few months ago and it went nowhere and his stays have only lasted longer. Is he overstaying his welcome ?