Ghosted me for a week when we first met and lied about why
Liked other men on social media at the beginning of our relationship
Shouted at me in the bedroom calling me a cunt
Said you hated my autistic daughter
Done sex work behind my back while I was financially supporting you so you could realise your business dream
Said I didn’t deserve basic respect if you didn’t feel like a princess
Gaslit me about what your mum and cousin said
Gaslit me about loads of shit
Constantly sought attention and validation outside of the relationship both in real, life and online
Broke up with me for causing arguments when you were really starting them
Talking to other guys for months in the bath
Conveniently forgetting details of behaviours when I was trying to seek clarity from you
Dressing hot and flirting with your boss in front of me like I didn’t exist
Led me on for months in London, breadcrumbing and withdrawing affection
Constant intermittent reinforcement
Trauma dumped on me, giving me a savour complex them mocking men in general with saviour complexes
Sent nudes to men when saying you were my girlfriend
Laughing with a man about sending things to me that would make me hang myself
Confiding in other men about things you didn’t with me
Lying to other men about me
Laughing and disrespecting me with other men whilst in a relationship with (1st and 2nd times)
Saying no one with a fully formed prefrontal cortex would ever want me
Hit me and drew blood
Ignored me
Ghosted me
Emotionally cheated on me
Used me for money
Lovebomed me
Lovebombed my kids, friends and family
Said that if any of my family members looked at you the wrong way you would treat them like nothing but shit on your shoe
Made me feel isolated at the end
Walked out mid meal and left me alone in a restaurant embarrassed
Refused to do things for me you did for other men
Got me to bring your ring light all the way to London then using it to make nudes for other men
Lied about being invited to miami to make me jealous
Lied about blocking your ex boss
Lied about his second number
Had a stalker account, probably to stalk other men or exes
Tried to monkey branch to boss
Sent a text after hitting me to set up a false allegation claim
Withheld sex to make me feel insecure
Twisted everything so I was always the problem
Never posted me on social media to appear single
Never had any consideration for my feelings
Pretended to be someone you weren’t in the beginning
Emotionally, mentally and physically abused me
Lied and smeared me to your family after the first breakup
Constant projection and deflection
Made me feel like I had to lie to friends and family to cover up your behaviour
Traumatised me multiple times
Badmouthed me to your cousin on the phone and laughing when I was clearly upset upstairs after a conflict
Parentified me
Dressed like a total slut for a concert in front of 1000s of people and then when I asked you to wear the outfit for me you said you didn’t feel comfortable in your body
Made me doubt my own reality and thoughts
Used your social media to make me insecure
Indirectly mocked me on your social media
Minimized much of this behaviour framing it as normal
And this is just the stuff I caught you doing, there was probably much, much more.