u/ActivelyAnonymous1

After some honest advice of what you would do if you were me….

I’m so angry at myself for even having this debate in my mind. After the most agonising year on my mental health TTC, and a chemical pregnancy in January, I’ve just found out today at 11DPO I’m pregnant.

We’re due to fly to Thailand next week, when I’ll be about 5 weeks - which is when I had my chemical. But in my mind I haven’t even accepted the pregnancy yet as I don’t want to get my hopes up and lose it again, that’s why I’m even debating the travel.

Even though the risk of Zika is small, it’s still there, and I just don’t know if it’s worth the risk. But on the other hand, if we had another chemical or loss, I would be so angry at myself for putting my life on hold.

We went to Thailand last year when TTC and the doctor said we should not try for three months. We had private blood tests done when we came back and were all clear so we continued to try.

We still booked the holiday this year knowing the risks even TTC, but now I am actually pregnant I’m at a cross roads.

What would you do?