Well. The caption says it. My boyfriend quit his job because he was unhappy. Everyone in his life advised him against it but he went through with it anyways. He was making over 100k and got that position through climbing the ranks. He didn’t have a degree and only has a diploma. Now he’s struggling to find work and most places won’t even interview him because he doesn’t have a degree.
I’m frustrated because he quit this job recklessly and he’s spending his money like he’s employed.
- He wants to dig out the concrete in his backyard because it’s affecting the foundation of his house 2. He’s going to school to get his Masters (it’s a program that accepts work experience in place of a bachelors). 3. He’s planning a trip to Vegas in November. 4. He’s started buying a ton of camera equipment because he wants to become a content creator for a band he likes. I’m worried that he’s going to run out of money and that he’ll get really stressed out once he realizes he’s not going to get a job so easily. He says it’s fine and he can just ask his parents for money if he needs it but I don’t want my 32 year old boyfriend to be asking his parents for money on his mortgage.
TLDR: My boyfriend made the choice to be unemployed and is making poor financial decisions.
What am I supposed to do with all of this frustration. Is there a way to communicate all of this without him getting upset or hurt. I already know that he himself is worried about the fact that a job isn’t coming so easily for him. I don’t want to leave him. I’m just worried.