My best friend now wants to include the guy she likes in EVERY plan and call we make as a group.
We’re a trio of friends, and we like hanging out and talking on calls, but now she wants to include this guy in everything, and I’m starting not to like the idea because they literally talk on the phone every day, while she only talks with us sometimes. She hangs out with him all the time, and whenever she sends us a voice message or we plan a call, we realize she’s sometimes with him too. And honestly, it’s starting to irritate me.
I think it’s fine to include him sometimes, but not all the time. Every person or group deserves their own space and time together without constantly mixing everyone together. I feel like some people don’t know how to separate their relationships, and it doesn’t seem fair considering she sees him almost all the time and talks to him constantly. It bothers me that she can’t dedicate some time exclusively to us.
I don’t really trust that guy, and I dislike that they want to include him in plans we had already been talking about for a long time, because those are things I wanted to do with my trio, not with someone who feels like a stranger.
What do you think? Is it unreasonable to want friend-group time without my friend’s crush?