Hi! My name's Samuel, I'm a 24 year old man living in Charlotte, and I'm looking for a fellow oddball who's incapable of staying the same.
If there's one core reason why I've had issues finding friends and partners, it's the fact that I'm always obsessively improving something about myself, or expanding my horizons in some way, or otherwise going through dramatic changes in my life. These changes are virtually always positive, but it makes socializing hard because the guy people meet today isn't the same guy they'll see in half a year. I'm actually really good at maintaining friendships, I've managed to maintain multiple childhood friendships for my entire life, but maintained or no at some point you just have to realize you don't have anything in common anymore.
I'm looking for someone who I can know, fully, before having everything I know be rendered obsolete by new, tantalizing depths of personality. Basic superficial stuff really doesn't matter, I'm not going to pretend to have the slightest clue of what I want, because I don't. I don't think anyone does, really. Difference is most people spend their lives chasing a phantasm that they think they want rather than flirting with reality as it presents itself
Anyway, I'm into fitness, I do a ton of stretching and yoga and fascia work which have been life changing for me, and I want to finally get around to taking cardio seriously. I also want to try bouldering which I'm pretty sure I'll love, slots in excellently with my other fascia work, and will allow me to finally get over my fear of heights.
For work I currently and historically have done a long series of random ass jobs which are mildly entertaining for about 6 months before I get bored and quit. As far as career ambitions I have historically flip flopped every 5 minutes but I'm a big systems thinker and currently intend on writing & consulting with regard to eliminating bureaucratic overhead from companies (read: deranged crusade against zoom meetings). We’ll see if I'm onto something else in 2 months. Perhaps I'm just too wild and free to be pinned down to a boring grown-up job, and will pursue random whimsical activities until I buy a van, move to the beach and start panhandling for cat food
My hobbies currently include reading fake-deep substack articles, eating lettuce, seeing how many showers I can take before my landlord complains about the water bill, and buying philosophy books i wont read to impress my shih tzu
Here's a couple pictures of me. I look like a cross between a skinhead and Walter White, especially now that I grew out a full goatee, which you'll have to wait to see in person because I've taken my government allotted amount of pictures for the decade