Caught feelings for someone who already has a boyfriend, how do I move on ?
I met a girl during our online fresher training at an IT company. We’re not exactly colleagues, but we became somewhat friendly during the training. She’s a Kashmiri Muslim (she looks gorgeous) and I’m a Hindu.
Over time I started developing feelings for her.I find her really beautiful and somehow I’ve become quite attached to her. The problem is that she already has a boyfriend, who is also her cousin.
Despite knowing that, I still feel very drawn to her and I think I’ve become a bit obsessed, which I’m not proud of. At the same time, I get the feeling she isn’t interested in me that way she usually avoids meeting up or spending time together outside of normal interactions.
The tricky part is that we see each other once a week when we go to the office, and we usually commute via auto together. So there’s still regular interaction, which makes it harder for me to detach.
I’m kind of stuck between knowing the reality and still feeling emotionally attached. Has anyone else dealt with something like this? How did you move on or handle it?