Long story short, I have an “acquaintance” (idek if we could even be considered that) who’s getting married this summer. It’s not rlly a destination wedding since it’s in the US but it’s several states away and would either be an 8+ drive or a flight.
I know this acquaintance through a friend of mine and even though we all used to hang out all the time, it’s kind of slowed down. I occasionally get invited to group hang outs and potential vacation plans but I don’t get life updates about this group (other than my friend) unless we’re having a group hang outs. For example, I didn’t even know one person had a child on the way or the gender until my friend told me, but I’m pretty sure the others did.
I feel bad because we used to hang out a lot but we don’t talk at all even tho we all work in the same building (I’m on a different floor from everyone else) and I didn’t even know 2 members of the group moved to our building until I saw them.
The answer seems pretty obvious but I feel bad because I’m going to my significant other’s friends wedding (who I haven’t met yet due to scheduling conflicts) but their wedding is only a 2 hr drive away.
I’m also thinking about breaking away from the group as a whole.
WIBTA?
Edit: the invitation was sent out 2 years ago and we’ve slowly gotten more details about it as time has gone on. I RSVPd those 2 years ago because the group was fairly close but now that the event is getting closer, I’m not sure anymore.