u/Accurate_Drink2493

I 31 F and him 34M met each other at the office where we work. He asked me out after some time and we went out on total of 2 dates together. I really liked him and thought we had a good chemistry. We never gotten intimate but conversations were smooth and we both had a good laugh all throughout these two dates. I then asked him out for a third date because I wanted to spend more time with him and get to know him and also to make sure he knows that I was interested. He said he wasnt available at a certain day and asked me for another day to meet which I wasnt available in. He never texted back or said anything after. Its been a month. He used to text every day before that. I cant help but think whether I did something wrong somehow. I really thought we were getting along pretty well. Im not sure what happened but I feel like he mightve lost interest? I have to say that my job place is changing so its gonna be kinda far from where he is so maybe he doesnt wanna deal with distance? Idk what to make of it but I feel like i did my part in showing him that I was interested when I asked him out for a 3rd date. Im sad because I really thought we were a good match. Im in my 30s so I dont have time for games but maybe he was just wasting time and wasnt serious from the beginning? I was the last one to text him and I dont wanna look desparate if I text him back especially when i was the one who asked him out last. What do you guys/girls think?