u/AccurateImplement537

So this is less need of advice and more about me bitching and complaining but I tried getting dating advice from my cousin (who is an experienced female for lack of better words) and when I asked for the honest truth she said I was just blatantly mediocre looking and to energetic and im not mad about the energetic part its the tone in which she delivers it sounded like I was a problem not a person and now I don't know what to do. Any thoughts?