Heyy, so I wanna tell you this story and maybe you can help/motivate me to keep affirming!
Two months ago, me and my ex broke up. I found out about manifesting and I immediately got to work. My affirmations were: “Of course we got back together, he’s so obsessed with me and so in love with me.”
One week ago, he texted me with the excuse of giving me back some things, and we met up (I was sooo anxious). That night he told me everything I wanted to hear, even that he loved me, etc. So for two days everything was normal, he kept texting me, etc. I was affirming even with him literally in front of me, but I guess I started wavering because he told me he tried to hang out with someone else, but he couldn’t anymore because he kept thinking about me.
After those two days, I had to go back to uni (1 hour away), and we kept texting until he ghosted me. I think I wavered during this, but I still tried to affirm. I went back home and texted him to hang out, and he replied saying he couldn’t do it anymore and that he wanted to be alone.
I know where I went wrong. I didn’t react to this and went back to affirming. I guess my question is: do I keep the same affirmations? Should I add self-concept? (I’m affirming “I am always the priority, I’m always chosen, I’m always the prize.”) Is this “fixable”?
Right now I keep affirming and living in the end, telling myself he’s mine, crazy about me, and I’m having mental conversations with myself. Help, I’m so confused!!