Parent was told they were dumb
What kind of impact did this have as me the child they raised? Well, they never really had drive to learn or figure out why I was acting a certain way. I was never grounded or abused but I often felt smothered at the same time. If I had any questions the answer was either “it will work out” or “don’t worry about it.” so I just didn’t worry about it. I pushed it down. I pushed whatever aside and just assumed everything would work out and then when I turn 42 I had extreme burnout and now I am trying to figure out my whole life. start this day when I ask something that is too deep. It is always that I think too much and I overthink.🤷🏻♀️
u/Accurate-Long-259 — 4 days ago