i'm RC and have an INC suitor
Hi, I'm RC po and my suitor is INC. 1 month na kami na nasa ligawan stage. We're open about our differences in religion. Sinabi ko na agad sa kanya na hindi ko gusto magpaconvert kasi hindi ko kaya magcommit sa religion na need lagi ng presence sa simbahan. Catholic ako pero hindi ako palasimba, hindi religious pero spiritual lang. Fast forward, niyaya niya ko dalawang beses na if gusto ko raw sumama sa kanya sumamba pero tinanggihan ko :(( i don't know, hindi ko talaga gusto pero nirerespeto ko religion niya. I'm starting to like him because of his attitude and personality, but di ko maiwasan ioverthink yung future na kapag religion na ulit ang usapan, baka ayun yung mag cause ng hiwalayan namin huhu i like him a lot but not his religion. Sabi niya, mapag uusapan naman daw namin ulit about this. I need your advice po, parang wala samin parehas willing mag convert. Ang advance pero gusto ko na kasi marinig opinion ng niyo or ng iba before pa lumalim yung nararamdaman ko sa kanya 😭
EDIT: Thank youuu, everyone! At least i have an idea based from all your experiences. He already knows na never ako magpapaconvert and one of my friend asked him last night pala if seryoso talaga siya sakin (he said yes) and willing daw ba siya magpaconvert in the future if ever na kami daw talaga, he said "no, mapag uusapan pa naman yun". I think, that's enough para itigil na talaga hahahaha 😭