So here I am again.
I have posted about my parents before but now it’s genuinely surprising.
I live in Germany. In our school we have something called courses. We have to take a course. You chose it at the beginning of starting the school.
So today I would’ve had a course, which for me is Russian. But the substitute plan showed it being canceled. On Untis (a platform for showing your school classes) it showed my course two times and one of those was canceled.
So of course I checked the substitute plan. Since it was canceled I made a picture of it (just in case) and went home.
Now my parents immediately said that Untis said that the class will still happen. So they called the secretary and she confirmed it.
I still said that since the substitute plan (which teachers tell us to follow it since it’s basically the final say) said it wasn’t happening I will still go home.
At the bus stop I had the pleasure of having this chat with my mom (it’s in Polish so I will excuse myself already if the translation is a bit wrong)
Mom: “Go to school right now, you have lessons!”
Mom: “What's wrong with you, whose life do you want to make miserable?”
Me: “No”
Mom: “Remember, if you pull such stunts, the Jugendamt (basically CPS but from Germany) will ask about you, and no one will defend you. What you're doing is skipping class without any justification.”
Me: “Yeah yeah keep talking” (I know this might make the a jerk but she always and I mean ALWAYS loves to bring in CPS if I do something wrong. And in this case I will talk to the school about this since I am following the substitute plan)
Mom: “You are an ungrateful, insolent child.”
And that’s when I told her I will block her for this and that it’s a discussion for home.
Now again I know I wasn’t the nicest to my mom but she is always like this.
And the cherry on top of this awful situation is that my dad when he picked up the phone (we live in an apartment and I recently lost my keys while I was in Poland. Will find them there probably) “who are you. You’ve got the wrong address” then he buzzed the door.
I lost my cool then (since there were times when I was 11 or so where they locked me out of the house so I don’t like this at all) and I told him to fuck off before I went to the library (although I doubt he heard me).
Since this situation happened like an hour ago, I will continue updating but it’s not the first time my parents lost cool over a thing I did (and trust me it’s often very small things like this)
So Reddit am I a jerk here?