My brother just informed me that I’m no longer in my parents Will as my husband and I don’t need the money. We have worked hard to set ourselves up and been very careful living within our means. My two brothers through bad decision making or being far too generous do need the money! Is that fair? I feel quite upset but unsure how to address this? Should I address this with my elderly parents? I get it it’s their money but I’ve tried to be a great and supportive daughter. One of my brothers barely speak to mum and dad. The other brother he does everything for my parents.
Initially mum and dad always had a Will that was a third share equally now they are moving in with one of my brothers (the helpful one) and investing in his new property. The rest of the money will go to my other brother - is now what my brother tells me. I said to my parents I don’t need the money but my children do. Advise on how to address this. Talk me off the cliff because I’m upset. I don’t want to blow up my family relationships. The Will isn’t changed as yet is my understanding - but it could be?