Tired of single women trying to ruin my relationship with my gf of 4 years. Tired of being compared for no reason. Tired of "feminists" trying to ruin my girl. Could use some advice how to deal with some of my inner insecurity?
Exactly what the title says, im so angry with these "feminitts" and uh "heit checkers". If you know uou know. One set of my gfs friends triedto force her to talk to guys, have guy friends, and even ride on a motorcyxle with these guys, when she didnt, tried to bully her. My gf changed rooms, new set of friends. Now, they start fkn height checking me? My girl is around 4'10 or 11. Her friends are short and one even shortner than her, from her group friend pics. Im 5'2. Firs timein 4 years...well in our whole relationship she never bothered. Now she asks me. One of those bitches have a guy 5'10 [just more tha friends, not bf yet]. My girls been supportive, she knows my qualities, what i provide. She aint talk to guys much, i dont talk to girls much, our relationships been quite secure.
Im very pissed of at general with "these" women, comparing? Trying to make her feel insecure because she actually has a bf who has sticked by her, cares dor her, calls her, loves her, takes cares of her, buys her stuff, been patient with her, been kind when she was immature and emotionally volatile, sticks to his vows, doesnt cheat[for fuggs sake i ignore women, dont even watch porm], has life goals...?
They try to impart their stupid ideals, fuck around, later settle, go drink, cheat?
EDIT: she understands how the women around her generally are, she herself defended herself, her actions, why she wont ride on another guys bike etc, told em to duck off, chaged to a new room in her hostel. [BTW u know what those girls said " he (as in, me, her bf, isnt there)isnt here, so its okay to ride"
The height comparison hit, cuz...she genuienly (i feel )has good friends, didnt expect this from them. she told me they keep pestering her, but she ignores, but asked me anyway for herself only. she said she doesnt care if im as tall as a coconut tree, she loves me, and to her im taller than her thats enough.
Also by feminists i do not refer to the people who support gender equality, rather these kinda bitches that are littered everywhere. Its okay if you want to drink, fuck around, lie etc, JUST because you dont get a good guy because of your habits doesnt mean you go around making all girls shitty so the dont get into good relationships and live a miserable life like yourself.
Shes good looking, lovely, some guys propose her sure, but she doesnt get airy and all im so great and i can do what ever i want. She knows my values, she loves me. She proposed me lol! And her first question that day 4 years ago, while she looked into my eyes, on the stairs of our coaching centre, as light fell perfectly on to her face was : was i serious? I said yes.
We work out stuff, had bad days, good days, bloody arguments, as we workes through our teenage years, emotions and insecurities. We stay. We Choose to love each day. We know our bad habits, good habits, what we needwhen we are sad, what makes us happy.
Dammit I love this woman. And she loves me too! No social media (i use reddit tho) both of us, shes aware what social media does etc....shes smart, beautiful and hot. What a great combo!!