Apologies in advance because im not good at writing or getting my thoughts out. It’s all word soup lmao
Context: I’m a 26 yr old female, boyfriend is 28 male. I ended things last night and I need to know if you’d feel the same way or if a guy can chime in and let me know too from a males perspective.
We’ve been together for 7 months. It hasn’t been easy and always sunny/positve. We have big fights at least once a week and he’s always telling me the fights are my fault for having emotions. He then says that I am manipulative when I try to explain my side or emotions. He has said on many occasions that he is never the problem and it’s always me. I have felt over the past two weeks that he has kind of lost feelings and when I bring that up he tells me I’m crazy but I feel like there has been a shift in our relationship. He is also just applied to a job that would move him 12 hours away and he said I’m selfish for not going with him.
I have explained to him that because my ex cheated on me after two years of being together with a girl he met on vacation (and got pregnant) I have trust issues. Every time I go on instagram there’s a new girl popping up that says he follows. I don’t care if he has friends who are girls but some of the photos of these girls…he doesn’t like the normal selfies it’s always the half nude ones. I have told him multiple times how that makes me feel and he says then that’s my fault I feel that way and I need to control my feelings.
Anyway here’s our text thread from last night. I don’t want to post a pic of the girl who im referencing for her privacy. But all of her pictures are either skin tight or lack of clothing and he reacted to all of her recent pictures.