u/According-Thing5293

I’ve been in Sagar for almost a year now as a student, and honestly, all I wanted was a simple life here — good food, peaceful places to sit and relax, and decent people to vibe with. But most of the time, it feels like everywhere I go, people just act unnecessarily loud, tapori, or keep talking rubbish for no reason. It gets exhausting after a point.

Maybe I just haven’t found the right crowd or places yet, but the city still feels hard to connect with socially. Are there any genuinely chill cafés, libraries, quiet spots, parks, or underrated food places where people actually mind their own business and the atmosphere feels peaceful?

Would really appreciate recommendations from locals or students who’ve had a better experience here. I want to like this city, I just need better places and better vibes around me.

I hate going home from the hostel. I feel suffocated there. I don’t feel safe or at peace in my own house anymore. Every day it’s the same questions—where I am, who I’m talking toand constant video calls, even during lectures. If I don’t pick up, I get insulted and mentally harassed. You call me in the middle of the night and ask me to prove where I am and who I’m with. Even when I’m at the hostel, you track my location and question every step I take. I share everything, I follow everything you say, but nothing is ever enough. When I go to class, you send screenshots of my location and question me like I’ve done something wrong. It’s humiliating, especially in front of my friends. It’s been two years of this, and I feel exhausted, suffocated, and unheard. I don’t know how much more I can take.