Been married for 20 years. Both turning 40s. 3 kids..
We travel, spend time together , we still do things together, we see each other everyday and almost every hour as we both work from home..but no longer as intimate as we used to..
I love spending time with her.. her smell still makes me go crazy.. Still enjoy our playful moments.. Miss her cuddles.. miss the physical aspect most especially but she seems to be always too tired, busy or sleepy..
I still want it but it does not seem she wants it as much..
TL;DR: I want more sex , she doesn't. Any advice to bring back the passion/ physical intimacy or do you just let go and accept that fact that we're getting older and it is the way it is?
No access to couples therapy as I don't think it's a thing here.