I want to lose my vaginal virginity and I need advice
So, to make it short, Ive never had anything inserted in my nether regions. No finger, tampon, nothing. The deepest ANYTHING has ever been in me is a thong underwear wedgie.
I have been intimate before but the only intimate things I’ve done are receiving head and receiving rubs (both on my labia). That’s it! I want to lose my virginity now but I’m so afraid.
I’ve tried before but whenever I have to spread my legs and I feel the cold air start attacking my area I get super nervous and close my legs.
Having something inside my vagina is a blank spot in my mind. I can envision many feelings, but having something inside of my vagina is not one of them. It’s a void. I am afraid to know what it’s like because people say it hurts and that you’ll bleed the first time. (I know that’s not always true but I think my hymen might still be in tact which would cause additional discomfort if it breaks)
That being said, I still want to lose my vaginal virginity.
Has anyone been in my situation? The only solution I can think of is being sedated by something in order to lose it. However, Id also love to be fully present. Please, any tips are appreciated! Whether it’s your own experience, positions that are good, etc.
(This post is mainly directed at people who have vaginas for their first hand experience but if anyone else has advice it is also appreciated)