u/According-Battle-419

Can obsessive love be good/genuine? I think I'm being lovebombed, but could it just be infatuation?

I (18F) just met this guy (25M) not even a full month ago. A couple days into the friendship he started flirting, and now we are at the point where he just started referring to me as his wife and his life partner and such, which to me seems extreme for the amount of time we've known each other. He calls me every night and we talk for a few hours, and I wake up in the morning to super affectionate greetings, as well as all throughout the day it seems he has never ending compliments and is always talking to me so sweetly. I do like him but I feel almost overwhelmed by the amount of affection he is giving me. Not even in a bad way, but I am not sure if it's exactly normal. The way he talks with me and is constantly gushing about how perfect I am is something i've never encountered before. It makes me feel special and of course makes me feel very appreciated, but is it unhealthy? It's like every single sentence is sandwiched between compliments and flirty banter. Is this possibly a bad thing or is there anything I should be cautious of or looking out for? This seems like a green flag that he's very interested in me but it's so much that I'm wondering if it's normal.

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u/According-Battle-419 — 5 days ago