22M
Never had a teenage love experience, i wasn't particularly good looking in school but glowed up in college.
During college also got friendzoned. Never had a gf experience just have had dates.
22M looking for a fun/active friend group, i am fit can run and play sports. just graduated, so my friends are all drifted apart, so...
ghumi ghumi chale?
Hi,
22 Year old Indian guy here trying to share my experience and looking for some advice or anything you want to share with me.
So, I am a 22M 178cm 65kg fit good/decent in looks, living in indore at home and preparing to join the army.
my love/relationship experience has been
9th standard - liked a girl, but she got into a relationship with a mutual friend. She told me soon, and then after 3 months, they broke up. i stayed friends but confessed after a while on text. she friendzone me (i don't want any relationship rn) lost contact with here afterward
college 1st to 2nd year had a crush she was looking for a relationship like me to, but she got into a relationship with someone else broke up after 4 months. i stayed friends and got her gifts. I was a shy guy, but after some time, i still confessed over text(my shy/scared dumbass). this time, i knew she didn't have an interest in anything, but i just wanted to share my honest feelings with her. Anyway, I got friendzoned and still have her contact information, but after college, everyone drifted apart
now for my intimacy during her relationship of my college crush, a Muslim, but a smart, cute girl who took a liking to me due to some friend group chat we hung out. i hugged her she didn't mind later she started hugging me whenever we went out (1st hug was kinda intimate and long we listened to music)
she had a bf at the time, but she was fighting with her bf at the time. last time we hugged was very intimate she kissed me on the cheek as did I. But after that, I said I would only kiss my gf if I had technically we weren't gf bf. she said we both made a mistake so let's stay saperate.
I thought it was the right call as she already had a bf, and I was the "bestie."
Rn I have no friends at indore to hang out, just focused on my preparation.
I have made mistakes that cost me many chances for both love and intimacy. I just want other experienced people's opinions and advice to help me mature and understand myself better
Ps: open to answering questions