Hi, I recently decided to get back into pokemon go, turns out my old email for it was hacked and all the information to access it has been changed. I am so depressed because of it. I had pokemon I caught in all of my travels abroad europe/asia and wish to get it back. Any tips?
I recently became friends with someone who has a connection to an old friend of mine who ghosted me after quarantine.
I was heavily bullied in middle school, and early highschool. I was never stood up for by those in the group I was in who didn't directly target me, and had many of my character traits exaggerated in rumors.
I was a mentally ill undiagnosed autistic kid, and it didn't help that I was in a group that knew I truly had an issue.
During 2021 I was kicked out of the group, nobody standing up to me, and everyone around that group ended up cutting me off, nobody explaining why, nobody saying if I messed up.
Recently I befriended a person who is so kind and understanding, having heard from word of mouth that that group overall was problematic. I am not proud of who I was back then, but It was a reaction to the constant online/offline bullying I was subjected to.
I was told to 'kys' and sent p*rnographic images of my favorite characters. Even small things like being in a minecraft server and having my things griefed and the admin (someone in the group) refusing to apply the rules (no griefing) to those who griefed me.
This new friend is best friends with this person who ghosted me, turns out they left because someone in that group (who bullied me badly to the point of me having to bake-ract) had exaggerated some of my actions and told them to cut me off.
I am now a 20 year old with only two friends doing online school so I can transfer.
But through this person I was able to notice who lowly my bullies have it now, they are miserable too, doing whatever they want in an impulse; cheating, drugs, etc.
I feel sad that this friend that ghosted doesn't want to rekindle anything with me, when in my eyes we never even ended things on a bad note, truth is they know my side of the story but don't want to acknowledge me.
This really opened my eyes as to why no one liked me, this group had spread so many twisted lies about me that it left me subjected to others judgement without them knowing me. I have had so many people surprised that I am not as described by others, which hurts because I was a hurt kid back then. I just want a second chance.
I have recently read on the case of Liberty Rowan Hall who took her life at the age of 10 because of constant bullying in her grade.
I was also 10 when I attempted and failed.
I do not care for a child's age and the fact they 'dont' know any better', bullying kills, and a slap on the wrist does nothing, if you bully someone to death no matter what age you should be treated as a killer, simple point blank. And if the victim reports you, you should be persecuted for harassment and abuse.
I was 10 and bullied for years before that, I had my hair cut, chairs covered in glue, and isolated by classmates no matter what country I went to.
I am very biased in this but having been a victim I believe its just.