Do I leave my marriage
im currently at a crossroads in my life. my husband and I have been married 20 years together 25. He is em immature and has a bad temper (never or would ever physically abuse me) but when he gets mad he does yell and scream and emotionally abusive. years ago we split and he kept the house and I bought a condo where now my mom lives. the last 3 years he has been in and out of jobs and financially I made the mistake of taking loans out to keep us afloat. Now we have to sell my mom’s place to pay debt off and I will pay for an apartment for her. my husband twists it like she doesn’t need stairs not that he financially screwed us over. the last few months I’m beginning to see things with him that I think I knew just have ignored like I’ve asked to talk to him because of course my mom is having a handled time with moving and he just thinks she should be grateful that I’m still paying for her. he has no sympathy whatsoever. i have had extreme anxiety and crying almost every morning about this and he basically said that I need to snap out of it (it’s been about 1 1/2 months) or I should go stay at my moms. yesterday he said so how long are you going to be like this? I said well I don’t like how you’ve been treating me and he just said good he doesn’t care. I know he does but I just don’t think he has it in him to be emotionally available. deep down I know this isn’t healthy but I’m frozen in fear of leaving. I would go live at the condo with my mom but she has depression so not sure how healthy that is or if I’m emotionally capable to get through this. he’s all I’ve know, my family also doesn’t like him
tl;dr: do I leave or do I stay