I was in a talking stage with this one girl and we had constant arguments because we weren’t compatible and didn’t understand each other. She would get mad every time she needed to repeat herself or I said something she didn’t like, but it was mainly because I unmasked and showed that I needed accommodations like repeating what she needed, explaining things and/or elaborating. I don’t know if it is my fault or an incompatibility issue but I’m blaming myself for it because she said that my autism is too difficult to put up with and that she is fed up.
She then goes on to say that I’m too much for her, that I don’t understand her even though I tried my best to by asking her questions, asking her to repeat, etc. She said she can’t handle my autism ALL the time and that I’m like solving a puzzle. Is this my fault because I genuinely want things to work with her but every time I try to communicate how I feel she’s always rude whenever I ask what she needs from me. What should I do because I wanted for her to give me a chance and that I would change my behaviors for her? If so what behaviors should I change