u/Acceptable_Mine_5140

I (28F) just had our second baby on Christmas 2025, after 5 years of trying to have a baby..our oldest will be 8 this year. We’ve been together 9 years in October & married for 5…March 29th I discover phone calls through instagram to a woman..he (28M) trickle truth’d me into finally explaining he met her while out w his friends one weekend & there was a kiss & then they stayed in contact for maybe 2 weeks and then he blocked her. She was blocked when I discovered these calls. I’m a stay at home mom RECENTLY, and felt broken…but I wanted to stay and fix it. Fast forward to now…today I found messages from PRIOR to March 29 of him attempting to meet up w 2 women on separate occasions, claiming he was single & had no children….i don’t know what to do. I’m…struggling. We have two daughters, and I have NO family to go to…what the hell do I do now? I don’t know if I WANT to leave…but I don’t want my life to be a constant slow trickle of misery around this.