u/Acceptable_Bridge827

so me and my girlfriend have been together for about 10 months now. Things have been going pretty good from the start but recently I’ve been growing more and more pissed off with her because I feel like it’s nearly impossible for her to spend more time with me for over 10 minutes. I told her it’s irritated me a couple times already and I would like to see some changes because I a bit at times and I just need affection and I am a physical touch kind of guy. I keep texting her pretty short because I’ve just been very irritated that she always has a reason as to why she can’t see me. She does struggle with school and it has been an issue for her, but I was very understanding from the beginning, but as time goes on, I’m getting more and more irritated by it. She doesn’t get any help. She doesn’t try to find she it and just says that it’s hard for her and she doesn’t ask for people to help her when I’ve tried to push her to email or what not. she now has a job after quite a few months of not being able to get hired anywhere and she refuses to arrange her schedule to spend time with me even though I work and I’ve had a job for about 4 to 5 months now and taking days off to spend with her and then she evidently cancels on me and says that she either is grounded because of grades or her parents make her do stuff. I do also understand that she has a mom that likes to make her do a lot of things, especially with the exchange students that they choose to host because her is a Facebook and post everything for social media and she really isn’t too Great of a parent from a parental perspective. I obviously don’t just end it, but I have been very unhappy and I don’t know if it’s just that, but I’ve been unhappy with my job and I’ve been so frustrated and sick of school as it is my senior year and it’s coming to an end. I feel like at this point. I should just give her until like the end of May and see if things of school really is the entire issue then I should see some improvement. I had an argument with her yesterday that was pretty short and she asked why I was upset with her and I said it’s the same reason for two months and she said that she was texting me and I got upset with that and she was giving me space and I got upset with that. She asked what I wanted her to do and I said I wanted her to make more time with me and at this point I just need a break for a few days. Am I just entirely in the wrong here and I’m being totally unreasonable or do you think that I have reason to Be upset, especially with the fact that this has gone on for two months and I’ve offered help and I’ve offered solutions and she refuses to do anything like that. She said that on top of that that it feels like she has to constantly ask for me to show her affection, but I’ve just been very irritated with her, not putting in a lot of effort in time into seeing me or anything like that and I’ve just been sick of my life right now. Maybe it is me maybe I am the problem and I’m just unhappy with everything in my life and I’m poisoning people around me. You guys are just let me know. Sorry if this is a lot and if I sound like a total drag.